Is there a secret way to find real love? Well not really, it could be considered a long tireless search by many. Or other's may feel that real love will only come along when you are willing to make sacrifices of those things that you want and don't want. Meaning that maybe a person doesn't fit into your expectations but you could have real love with them anyway.
Many will never find their real love in the world, while others will find it right away, when they are younger. So what makes the difference? Why can't every person find their real love right away? Perhaps you're setting your search on things that you shouldn't worry about, such as how the person looks.
Finding the right balance is how you need to go about it. Though if it's real love, you will be able to tell that person anything rather quickly. And they will accept you completely for who you are. Because real love is what it's all about. Completely caring for another person, no matter what their faults may be.
So maybe the model wasn't a great example, but you can figure it out from there. Never state that you are a person who you aren't. Sooner or later no matter how hard you try, you will fail to uphold appearances. When you do that, the person who you thought was in love with you; well they may not appreciate it and leave.
But remember in the same sense you should never ask a person who you love to change either. Because you should love them for who they are too. So what happens if they've acted as if they were someone else, and then you find out? Many relationships will fall apart for this reason alone. Because when you look for real love you will not settle.
Finding real love in this world can take time though, and you will go through many others in some cases. It's until you accept the point that you need to be yourself completely, and not let anyone change you or your ideals. As you grow older, most people will begin to think that way. You've heard it said before "if they don't like it, oh well".
That's a perfect example of a person who's come to the point of not wanting to change for anything. Now all they need to realize at this point is they shouldn't ask anyone else to change how they are either. Because they may want that in another, but it won't be real love if they change a person.
Maybe you haven't found it yet, but you can one day. Just don't try and change another person when you don't want to be changed yourself. Never pretend you're someone you're not, or they will think they love another person. Many things can lead to real love, just take your time.
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